HEALING “YOU CAN"T HAVE ME": HEALING “YOU CAN"T HAVE ME." is the card of the day. “You can’t have me." is the energy that when people go to join us we jump away. It is an independent passive aggressive energy that attempts to gain control of a relationship. Today is a day to let go of energy like this that may be lurking in your deeper mind. or acted outright. Have a happy joining day!!