HEALING SEX AS ATTACK: HEALING SEX AS ATTACK is the card for today. Sex as attack is using the other, turning them into an object of lust and making no contact with them. It is using sex as revenge rather than as a form of giving/receiving. Today it is time to forgive ourselves for the times we used sex to separate rather than to join and wrest sex away from the ego and put it in the service of love. Have a fine day!!